Acknowledging oneself

In SELP we had this exercise of acknowledging onself & for most of us the distinctions lapse along with the course.

Yesterday when I met my friend Tim for a large cup of black tea, our favourite when we meet for these talks on spirituality, self growth etc. :-)

Was discussing about recent incidents in our lives. Tim applauded me on my efforts in solving one of my personal problems. The reason to commend was also on the fact that there were no residual feelings of hatred or underrating onself or anyone else but instead a feeling of confidence and great spirits.

I realised then I really had done a nice job :-) and acknowledged myself. Really felt exhilarted and understood the importance of acknowledgement in the SELP course!

SELP Project - Secondary Leaders

Last year we formed a group and started on the project of serving the old at an old age home. There were lot of hiccups but we did do some activities and when it looked the project is gonna pick up real good it all just stopped. There is silence from so many months.

I had to travel from my earlier job for a client meeting to Pune. Then had a personal visit to my in-laws at Delhi. Back to Bangalore, changed my job and traveled for a month to Sydney. This was enough to bring a hiatus and we just closed shop.

Deepak keeps calling me thinking that we would meet up and restart the activities. On Saturday Sid came home and he was like I am feeling so guilty about not going.

I was thinking what went wrong and how we can avoid it in future. If u r a landmarkian u would know what went wrong. We didnt have secondary leaders..so when i wasnt around everything stopped....a big full stop.

So now we plan to meet up and revive actvities and this time with a good rotation plan and passionate leaders as part of the group

Back in Action!!

Changed my job. Shifted to my own flat and then travel for work. So suddenly Landmark and its activities looked distant.

Now I am back and ready to play the game :-)

Keep watching this blog for some excitement !!!!!

More on Integrity

Picked this from the Landmark education site:

Integrity: The Bottom Line A Landmark Education Seminar
Integrity is often thought of as moral uprightness and steadfastness – making the “good” choices, doing the “right thing.” In fact, it is far more than that. It is a home, an anchor, a created and continuing commitment – a way of being and acting that shapes who you are.
In this Landmark Education seminar, you will discover that integrity resides in the ability to constitute yourself as your word, to be true to your principles, and ultimately, be true to yourself. You'll learn that integrity is not constrained by, nor does it reside in, rules, prescriptions, or imposed demands. Integrity creates an environment of freedom, power, and joy.

check the site for futher information: http://www.landmarkintegrityseminar.com/

Without Integrity nothing works!!

CS, my friend from Landmark(...we completed the "curriculum of living" together) went for this session in Bangalore "Without Integrity nothing works!!"

Since I am in Sydney I missed this session, anyway CS helped me understand some distinctions I would have missed:

• Integrity is not to just to honour your words but always to keep the empowering conversation for your possibility to be alive at all cost at all circumtrances.
• To be in integrity is to be whole and complete in EVERY area of life 100%. I am someone for whom only 100% of integrity exists there is nothing called 99% integrity and that who i am is "without integrity nothing works"
• When you experience loss of power in any area even before checking your inauthenticity check you INTEGRITY first !!
• Also get present to that there is no use of knowing. Its only being that is existential, knowing is fantasy

Thanks CS!!!

Trained Goodness | Natural Greatness - Part 1

I really loved reading this distinction Trained Goodness Natural Greatness. How important its for us to be Natural. I always remember Dad told me that I need to make my own decisions. I always had this inner strength to believe in a guiding conscience within me. When I read this article it lets me enjoy being Natural and explore the world for Greatness around within me and in others.

http://www.visionforce.com/course/natural-greatness-trained-goodness-1.html

Positionary | Visionary

Positionary Visionary is similar to the distinction Position Stand. What I get of this distinction strongly is how we make others wrong when we are in a Positionary way of being. Our position is validated only by invalidating others. Visionary on the other hand is positive and powerful. They truly stand for others.

http://www.visionforce.com/course/positionary-visionary.html

Reminds me of the Art of Living course where we were asked what we owned responsiblity of and all of us mentioned family, work etc. We were not expecting this answer that our responsiblity lies for everything in this world. Amazing results happened after that. People shared experiences. A group of young boys in the course actually removed a tree stump from the road that was dangerous expecially during nights.

My SELP Coach Gerard

Words would always be inadequate the way my SELP Coach Gerard has been. He has made a great shift in what I was being.

I can never forget these words which put me in action "Don't be a Think Tank, lift your butt & Take Action"

Our real values

Reading this article was a real shocker. Made me realize how we think we follow certain values but actually they are just there in our thoughts and not in our existence.

How easily these values take a back seat when we need to choose between comfort and the values we have set. Check this article:

http://www.visionforce.com/course/ivs-ovs.html

Position|Stand

Remember this distinction. Frankly I can relate to it more when I think of the distinction commitment & attachment.

In the link below, lots has told about position, later updates will contain more about Stand..check it out: http://www.visionforce.com/course/position-stand.html

Goodness|Greatness

This reminds me of the distinction "looking good". For us its more important that we look good for the world around us rather than be really good from within. And whoever and whatever we are, our upbringing, beliefs, fears and ethics blur the truth.

Read this interesting distiction about Goodness and Greatness: http://www.visionforce.com/course/goodness-greatness.html

Welcome to the Landmarkians

A warm welcome from Satyadarshini to all the Landmarkians. Completing Landmark Curriculum has been the only best education I have had to the path of self-improvement and self-discovery. Landmark has been "About being in Action".

Lets use this blog to share our experiences and note on Landmark!!!